When Do Girls Consider A Guy Desperate Or Needy If He Wants Too Many Cuddles?

Good for you for knowing what you like!

Cuddling can be really good for people. It can cause the body to release quite a few hormones, including oxytocin and dopamine. Oxytocin can help to reduce both stress and anxiety. It can also help us to feel connected to someone.

And it can have a positive impact on our blood pressure and our immune systems.

Dopamine can make us feel good. So does serotonin, which is also released when we cuddle. It can also help us to relax and may aid in sleep.

And while this might be what our bodies usually do when we cuddle, it may not always happen, especially when our brains get in the way.

Let me explain this more as I get back to your question.

It’s hard for me to answer your question with a definite “this is when wanting to cuddle comes off as desperate” because it really does differ for all women.

Some women might really enjoy all the cuddles since they also enjoy it for the bonding aspect. And all the other feel good things that come from the hormones.

Some women may question “too many” cuddles because they have never been with a guy who likes cuddling before. A lot of women I’ve worked with tell me that their partner only touches them when they want something. And if this is all they know, then cuddling may feel a little suspect to them as they wait for what they’ve been conditioned to believe comes next.

Some women may just see you wanting to cuddle as desperate because they just don’t like cuddling.

My advice to you is to tell women that you like it before you start cuddling with them. This gives them the chance to ask questions if they have any. Like do you like cuddling all the time? Only after sex? When you’re really stressed?

It also gives them the opportunity to tell you how they feel about cuddling.

And if they don’t like cuddling, you now have the chance to talk about how to find a way to fill your desire for cuddling with their desire to not. Maybe you can find some middle ground that feels comfortable for both of you, and you get your needs met.

Until next time, be safe, and have fun!

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