There Isn't Really A 'G-Spot' In My Ass. I Mean It Sorta Feels Good But It's Not An Orgasm Feel.

I'm not sure if this is going to make you feel good or bad, but not having an orgasm from stimulating your G-spot is actually pretty normal.

For those of you reading who don’t know about the G-spot in your ass, let me explain. The male G-spot is the prostate gland. And when it’s stimulated it usually feels good. Although this isn’t true for everyone.

I don’t love calling it the male G-spot for two reasons. One, it can be confusing. The location of the G-spot is very different for men and women. The second is that people think that stimulating the male G-spot will cause mind blowing orgasms because that’s how we usually talk about the female G-spot.

I need to point out here that not every woman has a mind blowing orgasm when her G-spot is stimulated. In fact, some women don’t enjoy the feeling of their G-spot being stimulated at all.

So I’m going to refer to the male G-spot as the P-spot for the rest of this post. The P comes from prostate in case you were wondering.

Back to the question. If it felt good when the P-spot was stimulated, but not necessarily an orgasm feel, I would ask how you were stimulating it.

There are two ways to stimulate it. One way is by inserting something into the butt and pushing into the P-spot. For people who are a little uncomfortable with the idea of inserting something up there, there’s another option.

You can put pressure on it by pushing on the skin that’s between the base of the scrotum and the anal opening. Technically this is called the perineum. The youth I work with call it the taint.

If you were trying this out by pushing on the taint, that may explain why you didn’t have a strong orgasm feel. If you tried it where something was inserted up your butt, it may be that you hit an area close to it, but not exactly it.

It's also possible that you did 100% nail stimulating the P-spot and for you it may just not give you a huge orgasm. Not everyone experiences P-spot stimulation the same way.

If you're interested in trying it again just to see if your second time is different, you may want to try using a different position. Sometimes that can change where you’re putting the pressure.

It's also okay you don't ever have an orgasm this way. You can include things in your sex play that just feel good, even if it doesn’t cause a mind blowing orgasm.

Until next time, be safe and have fun!

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