What Is Double Ball Busting?

Let me start by talking about what ball busting is just in case someone is reading this and has no clue. Ball busting is when somebody inflicts pain on the testicles. This could include putting pressure on them. Or kicking them. Bruising them, twisting them... Really the options are endless.

Sometimes people call this cock and ball torture. But keep in mind that even though the word torture is used, this should still be consensual.

Ball busting usually involves one person busting someone else's balls. What happens in double ball busting is that two people are busting one other person's balls.

If you've never done either single ball busting or double ball busting there should be a lot of communication happening beforehand. Since pain is going to be involved, it's best to talk about what behaviors are acceptable and what aren't. Plan to have a safe word or safe action that can stop play from happening if someone becomes uncomfortable.

Also talk ahead about aftercare for each person involved. If you don’t know what that is, just ask and I’d be happy to explain.

There are three things I want to point out.

The first is that it is possible to cause real damage to the testicles. So make sure you're taking precautions so that you're not doing that. I’ve written a post on rupturing a testicle that you might want to check out.

The second thing is a reminder that what you see in porn is not always realistic. And I mean that not just for ball busting, but about most things you see in porn. So don't feel like you need to repeat behaviors that you're seeing in porn. Especially if you're just starting down this path.

And that leads me to my last point. It might be helpful for you to interact with folks who have already done this kind of thing. You can learn about safety, and maybe even get some ideas in the process on how to increase the pain. The two places I usually send people who are looking for more information about ball busting or just kink in general are Kink Academy (which usually gets me censored on YouTube) and FetLife.

Until next time, be safe and have fun!

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