What’s The Best Size Penis To Satisfy A Woman?

First, it’s not just about penis size when it comes to satisfying a woman. If you think about female anatomy, there are a whole lot more nerve endings in the clitoris than there are inside the vagina. Like thousands more. So from a purely anatomical perspective, women are more likely to enjoy clitoral simulation then vaginal intercourse. And for many women, orgasms from clitoral stimulation are both more intense and more pleasurable. And also more common.

And you don’t need to have a penis present for a clitoral orgasm.

You can include clitoral stimulation during vaginal intercourse. This can be done with hands or with a sex toy.

Before I move on and talk about penis size, I want to point out two things. The first is that every woman is different. A really large penis might be an enjoyable experience for some women and not for others. Same for a smaller size penis. Some women may love those and some may not.

So we can’t just focus on penis size.

The second thing I want point out is that for some people, feeling connected to their partner is way more important than penis size. Having a partner who responds to her needs, having one who focuses on her pleasure and not his, may be more important than penis size.

For a lot of the straight couples I work with the complaint is that sex has become less enjoyable over time. And often it’s because they’ve fallen into this routine where the script is the same. He touches her there, then she touches him somewhere. Then they have sex in the same position they always do, and then it’s over and either one or both aren’t satisfied.

And in that situation, penis size doesn’t really matter.

But the question asked about size, so let me give you some what we know about average penis size. I want you to keep in mind that these are all based on self-report. Also keep in mind that people do lie in research.

For an erect penis, the average length is between 5 and 5.5 inches, about the length of the iPhone 13 mini. Or slightly longer than your average can of soda. If it helps, US paper currency is just over 6 inches long. If you want to read more about size, you might want to check out this post.

But size is just one part of being a good lover.

What we hear from some women is that when they have sex with men whose penis is on the larger size, the men just rely on that larger size. What I mean is that sometimes those men just assume that the larger penis is going to satisfy their partner, and don’t bother with other types of sex play, or don’t think about checking in with their partner to see how they’re feeling and what they can do to make things feel better.

I know that people often joke about it, but really when it comes to satisfying your partner, it’s not just the size that matters.

Until next time, be safe and have fun!

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