How To Give A Blowjob

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But whoever submitted this wants an answer, and I’m sure they’re not the only one. And I’m tired of the fear of censorship, so here goes (and hopefully you’ll actually be able to see this).

If you’ve never done it before, giving someone a blowjob can be a bit overwhelming. Your face is right up in their genitals and that means that you have to deal with smell, taste and hair. And since everyone’s bodies are different, this will probably be a different experience with every person.

And so before I get into the how to, I want to say that you have to be open to actually giving someone a blowjob. If you’re uncomfortable doing it, then it’s probably not going to be all that wonderful for you, or for them.

You may want to ease your way into it. Maybe do some touching and kissing around their penis, their balls, and their perineum. This is the area between the base of the penis and the top of their ball sack. Exploring can help you get comfortable with what your partner looks like, smells like and tastes like. Also, if you pay attention to their reaction as you explore, you may find that there are certain areas that they like being touched.

This is important. Because when it comes down to the basics, a blowjob is really about you putting your mouth on their penis and sucking. But a good blowjob will also include you kissing and touching other areas that they like. This can include stroking their penis as you suck. It can include playing with their balls, their nipples (if you can reach them), putting pressure on the perineum, or maybe playing with their butt.

There are a few other things I want you to keep in mind.

The first is to find a position that’s comfortable for you and your partner and knowing that you can shift if you need to. Just because you start in one position doesn’t mean you have to stay there. You may find that taking a break, and changing position, can make it more comfortable for you. It can also give you a chance to change what you and your partner can reach. They may enjoy just letting you suck them off, but they also may want to touch you while you do it.

You need to decide how you feel about them cumming before you get to that moment. Some people like to blow their partner until they cum, and have no problem with a partner ejaculating in their mouth. Some people may move their face at the last minute. Some people prefer not to have their face there at all when it happens and may switch to a hand job as they get closer. This is definitely something you need to think about for yourself and communicate that with your partner.

Next thing - tune into your partner. See how they respond to different types of touch and pressure. You may want to ask them if there’s something specific they like. You can encourage them to let you know if something feels really good  and they want more of it. And you can encourage them to let you know if something doesn’t feel good, and they want you to stop doing a particular thing. Like using teeth. Some people want no teeth. Some people like some contact between your teeth and their penis.

One last thing, I know it doesn’t sound sexy, but if it’s a new partner and you don’t know their STI history, then you may want to consider having them put on a condom before you go down on them. STIs like chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis are all transmittable through a blowjob. So are herpes and genital warts.

Until next time, be safe and have fun!

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