Oral Sex After Vaginal Sex
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I've been reading this morning one of the forums in women's health that touches on many experiences of cumming in your sex partner and it spoke of many different subjects, however I'd did not mention one that I wanted to ask you personally about rather than look or appear odd, or strange, or worse posting openly on the site. In one form about cumming in your partner and cleaning up I guess to put it as nicely as I can there was a short section on cleaning up and my question is while I realize they were speaking hygiene cleanliness, there is something I and my wife have done for the last several years and I'm sure you have heard of it but with my wife and I it's been a very erotic part of our love making that's brought us much closer in our bond, when my wife and I make love and I ejaculate in her it has been our practice that I would then perform mo oral sex on her, and not to be gross or rude while I do this she squeezes her lower abdominal muscles and mostly empties herself out and it at first became much more of an erotic act to the two of us I can't quite explain how it's become so much more and brought us so much closer in our soul's with one another. I guess my question is do I ask a doctor like yourself is this a safe act? is it clean, is it weird,?should I see a psychologist? I don't know if it's just a kink. I am 60 yrs old ,my is 22 years my senior and we have been married for 26 years I love my wife more than anything in this world next to my one and only child but I wanted to ask you first about safety for her as well as myself.
I don’t think it’s weird. At all.
And I don’t think you need to see a psychologist.
I think the two of have found a way to bring yourselves closer together, and that’s great! So often people think that physical intimacy has to end once one person ejaculates. So for me it’s refreshing to hear someone talk about how they found a way to prolong their intimate time with their partner even after cumming. And it sounds like it’s something your wife enjoys as well.
From a safety perspective, the only thing I would be worried about is STI risk. Anytime someone engages in oral sex there is the risk of STI transmission.
If you had an STI, like gonorrhea or chlamydia, not only would you be exposing your wife, but it’s possible for you to develop symptoms in your mouth and throat from exposure to your own semen.
But if STIs aren’t an issue, and you both are enjoying what you’re doing (which it sounds like you do!) then I wouldn’t worry about it. Enjoy your time with each other and don’t worry if what you’re doing isn’t the same as what other people are doing.
Until next time, be safe and have fun!
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