How Can I Orgasm Faster Through Fingering Rather Than Just Clitoral Stimulation?

If your goal is to orgasm faster and not do it by focusing on the clitoris, then I would suggest two things.

The first is to see if you can find your G-spot. This is located just inside the vagina on the anterior wall. If you don’t know where the anterior wall is, don’t worry, I’ll explain it in a bit.

Locating the G-spot can be really easy for some people, and not so easy for others. So I want you to try and have a little bit of patience as you try and locate it. And maybe try to enjoy the process of trying to find it if you can.

The G-spot is only 2 -3 inches inside the vagina. Some people think they have to go way deep to find it, but that’s not the case. As I said before it’s on the anterior wall. Which is essentially the front. So inside your vagina, on the front.

If I were directing your partner on how to find it, I would tell them to stick a finger or two about 2 inches inside the vagina and then curl the fingers in a “come here” motion. It can be a little awkward finding it yourself, but hopefully now you have a better idea of where to look / feel for it.

If using your hand is awkward or just not doing it for you, you can use a sex toy. There are some vibrators and dildos that are curved in a way that’s designed to target the G-spot.

The other thing I would encourage you to do is to think if there are other parts of your body that you can stimulate at the same time as fingering. Do you like nipple pressure? If so, you can play with them as you finger yourself or use nipple clamps. Does light touch somewhere help arouse you? If so, then add that in too.

Maybe it’s not about another part of your body. Maybe it’s all about the mental turn on for you. If that’s the case, can you get your brain somewhere sexy? Will reading something erotic help? How about listening to something, or watching something?

The question I have for you is why the rush? Are you trying to just get off quickly because privacy is hard to come by, and you’re worried about people walking in? Or is there something else making you feel like you need to do this quickly?

That something else can be part of what is making it harder for you to orgasm. When we’re in our own heads too much that can actually slow down how long it can take to orgasm. It can also make it harder to have an orgasm at all.

Until next time, be safe, and have fun!

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