Any Tips On How To Last Longer When Receiving Oral?

Sounds like this is a great match between what you want and what your girlfriend likes!

There are a couple of things that you could try that may be able to help you last longer.

One is something called edging. And edging can be used by all genders. It can also be used with different types of sex play, so not just oral sex, but also vaginal sex, anal sex, and masturbation.

Edging is where you're going to do the things that you're doing that make you feel good, and you're going to get up right to that point where you feel like you're about to cum… and then you stop.

And you're going to take a breath, and calm down a little, and back away from the excitement. Then you start sex play again and build back up. You can do this as many times as you want.

You can also switch up what is happening in the middle. So maybe your girlfriend is going down on you, you get to that point you're about to cum, so she stops. And then you can go down on her, and then you can switch.

There are two potential issues with edging. One is that it takes some practice in that you may not know where that point is where you're about to cum. For some people it's really obvious. They absolutely know when that buildup is happening and when they're getting to that point of no return.

But for others, they may not be that in tune with their body. So it may take some practice. That practice can happen with a partner, or you can do that through solo sex play.

The second problem with edging is that both you and your partner have to be willing to stop. Which can be hard, especially if you’re both enjoying what’s happening. You should definitely have some conversation with your partner ahead of time about what each of you want, and how you can make sure both of your needs are being met.

I’ve seen some people suggest using numbing creams for situations like this. The problem with using a numbing cream during oral sex is that if you're not using a condom, your girlfriend's mouth is going to get numb. So you should talk to her about this before using it.

You could try putting the numbing cream inside the condom and she can give you head while you're wearing a condom, but some people start to feel like that's a lot of work for delayed gratification.

I would suggest trying edging first. Not only can it help to delay how fast you cum, but it could add a whole new layer of excitement to sex play for both of you.

Until next time, be safe, and have fun!

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