Is It Possible for A Woman to Have an Orgasm from Giving a Blow Job?

The short answer is yes.

How? The power of the mind.

Don’t worry, I’m not about to try and encourage you to sign up for a 7-day masterclass on unlocking your orgasm potential (though that would be a fascinating class).

We often forget that our brain is an important part of our sex drive and our sexual response.

If your brain isn’t stimulated, it’s really hard to get turned on. Which can make orgasm near impossible.

I’ve talked about this in a lot of previous Q&As. When our brain is distracted, when we’re not really in the moment, it can be hard to get turned on. For men that may be an inability to get or maintain an erection. And for women, that means they’re less likely to get wet. And everyone, regardless of body parts, is less likely to have an orgasm.

And it can be a million things that can take our brains out of the moment. It could be that you’re mad at your partner, or maybe you’re worried about this month’s rent payment. Something could have happened at work that ‘s still taking up some brain space. It really could be anything that’s stopping you from being fully present.

But when our brain is right there with us during sex play, amazing things can happen. Someone might touch a part of you that you’ve never thought of being a sexy spot before, but because you’re so turned on by everything happening, that touch feels incredibly sexual.

And if a woman is giving a blow job to someone, and that someone is very much enjoying it, whether it’s the physical reaction from the blow job, or the noises he’s making, then she might orgasm from the experience.

And if she’s touching herself while giving that blow job, that’s going to increase her chances of having an orgasm.

Because I’m a realist (or a pessimist, depending on who you ask) I need to point out that this will probably not happen every time she gives a blow job.

 It could just be a one-off thing where everything just felt so good that she orgasms from giving the blow job.

So if it happened once, and doesn’t happen again with the same partner, don’t assume that there’s something wrong with either of you. Sometimes things are just a one-off event.

If you try and recreate the moment, but it’s not happening, and you’re so busy wondering why it’s not happening... then it’s your brain that’s becoming the barrier.

I’m not saying don’t try! If you want to try and recreate a great sexual experience, go for it!

But try and appreciate every sex sexual experience for what it gives you in the moment. Try not to compare it to other sexual experiences. Unless you’ve created some sort of ranking system, in which case that’s on you.

Until next time, be safe, and have fun!

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