If I (F) Really Enjoy The Sensation Of A Bowel Movement Leaving My Body, Would I Like Anal Sex?

Maybe?

It may seem like these two sensations would feel the same, but even though they involve the same part of the body they may feel very different.

When you're having a bowel movement there's a feeling of fullness. And then you feel it leaving your body.

When you're having anal sex, it's not a feeling of fullness that stays and then leaves. There's going to be repeated movement. And that is going to feel really different.

There’s a size and hardness issue. While some bowel movements can be big and hard, most are not going to be the same as a penis.

There’s also more involved in anal sex then there is in a bowel movement, and that’s that another person is going to be there. When you’re having a bowel movement, it’s just you and your body. Unless you have someone watching, which is a topic for a different post.

When you engage in anal play, someone else is going to be putting something inside you. Could be a penis, or a finger, or another object like a sex toy. This is going to require a lot of trust on your part that the other person is going to move at a speed, and depth, that works for you. And that they’ll stop or slow down if you want them to.

Before I go on, the educator in me wants to remind everyone that if you’re using a sex toy for anal play, you want to make sure you are using something with a flared base. That helps to prevent the sex toy from getting stuck inside the body.

Back to the question. When you engage in anal play, especially if this is something new, it’s recommended that you use lube. This is not something you have to use with a bowel movement. So you need to think about how you would feel using lube in and around your rectum.

So I’m going to stick with my answer of maybe you’ll enjoy anal sex if you like the sensation of a bowel movement. You might want to try starting anal play with an object smaller than a penis. That will give you a better idea of whether or not you might want to go ahead and try anal sex.

Until next time, be safe, and have fun!

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