Why Do I Get Turned On When I Give Oral Sex To A Man With A Big Penis
There are a whole lot of reasons why giving oral sex to a man with a big penis might turn you on.
But I want to step back for a minute before I get into your specific question and talk about pleasure and oral sex in general.
We tend to think of the person who's on the receiving end in that situation as the only person who's getting pleasure. Even the language we use around that, receiving vs. performing or giving makes it sounds like one person is going to enjoy it more.
But there are a lot of people who really enjoy performing oral sex. Whether that's on a penis, a vulva, or oral-anal. There's something about the sense of providing pleasure to their partner that gets them off. They may get really turned on hearing their partner react to what’s happening. Or watching their partner react. Whether that’s by looking at their face or just seeing a whole-body reaction.
For some people it may be about the feeling of control. They may feel powerful when they're the one who's performing oral sex on their partner. And causing them to feel the pleasure they’re feeling.
Now for your specific situation there may be a psychological piece to this. Something that makes it feel really good if it's a big penis. This may have come from a previous experience, or just the look and feel of a big penis. It may be that the size feels like a challenge and that turns you on.
I feel like I need to point out that not everyone would get turned on by this situation. That's the thing about turn-ons, they're really individual. So, if you're reading this and you're thinking “I get turned on by giving oral sex to any size penis” that’s absolutely valid.
And if you’re sitting there thinking “l don’t like giving oral sex on any size penis” that’s also valid.
We all like different things. And it may not be necessary to understand why something turns us on.
If it’s important to you to understand it on a deeper level, think about what size means to you. Do you think it makes the man look more manly, more powerful? Is there something about how it feels? Does it remind you of a past partner? All of those answers could impact why you get turned on giving oral sex to a man with a big penis.
Until next time, be safe, and have fun!
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